The grass isn’t greener on the other side. The grass is greener where you water it. As Cultivators, we will tend to the wives that God has given us, and lovethem as they grow and develop into the women God called them to be.
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. Ephesians 5:25-28